I am definitely with you on the making friends part. The social side of fandom is secondary to the reading/writing part, to me, and I don't want every fic I read to turn into a chain of social obligations - or even a new friend. I don't have the time! Or the energy! I wouldn't any time left to read fic! Which isn't to say I don't want to be friends, just that I need to budget my social output more than that.
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Date: 2012-04-06 04:11 pm (UTC)